It's been said, "Anyone can be a father, it takes a man to be a dad." Sadly, many men are not "showing up at gametime." The May 4, 1998 cover of Sports Illustrated (SI) featured a little boy asking, "Where's Daddy?" CNN/SI's Web page reported:
Among professional athletes out-of-wedlock births are epidemic....According to SI, one of the NBA's top agents says he spends more time dealing with paternity claims than he does negotiating contracts. The agent tells the magazine that there might be more kids out of wedlock than there are players in the NBA.{1}
Many men with families find themselves caught between new demands to provide more nurturing and the traditional role of bringing home the lion's share of the bacon. What's a dad to do? We've created a special focus to briefly explore the state of fatherhood in our culture and how to address it. Below you will find tips on being a better father, inspiration to let God lead your efforts, extensive social science data on the effects of fatherlessness, and more. We pray that this helps you or a father you know carry out one of life's most important roles.
The Eclipse of Fatherhood Gilbert Meilaender Review of a very popular book by David Blankenhorn, Fatherless America. More than half of our nation's children will spend at leadst some of their childhood growing up without a father in the home. Never before have so many men abandoned their children. Why if fatherhood declining? Can anything be done about it? With passion and precision, Blankenhorn demonstrates that whether our concern is teenage pregnancy, violence against women, educational failure, or child poverty, no social trend of our generation is more dangerous than fatherlessness.
The Family and the Church: How Should Biblical Manhood and Womanhood Work Out in Practice? George W. Knight III Several biblical principles for family life are described in this essay, particularly exploring one take on the biblical views of decision-making in marriage, the man's role in the church, etc.
Knighthood and Biblical Manhood Lou Whitworth In this essay we will be looking at an inspiring book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight, in an effort to learn how we can motivate our sons to live lives of honor and nobility. This book, written by Robert Lewis, grew out his own experiences as he and some close friends struggled to lead their sons into balanced, biblical masculinity.
Earthly Fathers Scott Sawyer A very personal tribute to a father.
Ten Ways to Be a Better Dad National Fatherhood Initiative Another view of the top priorities of fathering from a brochure by The National Fatherhood Initiative.
When Your Teen Rejects Your Values Rick Rood Practical guidelines to dealing with strong-willed rebellion of teen children.
Advice for Parents Ron Nash This material is taken from the book The Totally Useable Summit Ministries Guide to Choosing a College.
National Child Care Kerby Anderson This essay looks at the important issues concerning the subject of day care. What are the implications of a nationally subsidized day care system? How does day care affect early childhood development? What are the psychological costs? What are the social costs? What are the medical costs? These are just a few of the questions we will try to answer in these pages. Psalm 127 reminds us the children are "a gift of God." Before we develop national programs that may harm our children, we need to count the costs and make an informed decision.
{1} CNN/SI Report {2} National Fatherhood Initiative home page
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