A recent poll by The Barna Group asked young people their impression of Christianity, and the top most agreed upon response is that Christians are anti-homosexual. Nothing about holiness or charity or idealism; we are against gays. On the one hand this may reveal the tendency of a comfortable, lackadaisical church to be judgmental. On the other hand the Bible says that when people seek to deny the Creator and be anti-God, as our culture is doing with increasing enthusiasm, they will also jealously seek to distort His image. (Romans 1:22-27) And apart from Jesus Christ the fullest image of God is the marriage relationship between a man and a woman. "God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them."
So this Valentines Day let us lift up the grace of God in Christ and talk of the precious sacredness and holiness of His love. Let us be known first not for hating sin but for exalting the Lord. And when people ask you whether you believe in gay rights, tell them you believe in Jesus. If they tell you Christians are hypocrites and hatemongers, ask them whether they think Jesus was a hypocrite and a hatemonger. Tell them of the cross and of the one who lay down His life so that we could live again. Tell them that the whole of creation is an expression of His joy, including the creative act of sex. Tell them that the union between a husband and wife is beautiful, but that it is only a dim reflection of the promise of heaven. (Ephesians 5:22-33; Revelation 21:1-4)
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